Big Picture Thinking Tools
Big Picture Thinking Tools Sally struggled in each of her 16 school years. But because she had good common sense and started her adult life with a winning PLAN, she was able to work around her memory deficits and retire earlier more secure than most. Sally used big picture thinking tools. You will like her […]
THE FASTEST WAY TO A COMPLETE MAKEOVER
Certain events and beliefs change the rules we live by. They can cause us to be bold or afraid, beaten or determined, sadder or wiser, to shrink from or rise above. The meanings we attribute to them are called “Tags”. For example if your partner is late for dinner on a regular basis, you could […]
To Sail Through Life, “Stage” Yourself Constantly
Two professionals who coach people on how to prepare their houses for sale, a process called “Staging,” strolled through my house and broke my heart. They pointed out all the things that had to go, be painted, fixed or moved, and what needed to be purchased or done to sell the house. I had anticipated […]
Care Less (AKA Killing with Conscientiousness)
Most people know that prolonged anxiety can and does shorten lives. What they don’t know is that being overly-conscientious is an octane booster for their anxiety. The more they care the more it hurts the sender and the receiver. When we set out to shed our anxiety, it seems like we are being asked to […]
